Skills are essential when people communicate. There are three main elements that security personnel of China Special Security Service Company should follow when communicating with others:
One is equality. Everyone who lives in reality is equal in personality, regardless of his position, the gap between the rich and the poor. Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we must not raise ourselves an inch, put others down a foot, intentionally with the other side "across a ditch, diaphragm a wall", to give others a feeling of "rejecting people thousands of miles away". If we use power to oppress people, power to oppress people, and strength and weakness in communication, then it is impossible for everyone to be equal, let alone have harmonious interpersonal relationships.
The two is respect. Desire for respect is everyone's basic psychological need. In interpersonal communication, we should give due respect to all people, regardless of their status. We should not only respect the personality of others, but also respect the external or internal psychological distance of each other. We should not easily break through it and destroy it. Otherwise, it would be an offence to the other party, which would inevitably lead to the opposite party's disgust and alienation.
The three is communication. Bai Yansong, a well-known CCTV host, once said, "Every Ministry of Life needs to express itself." Then, what goes hand in hand with expression is interpersonal communication. Only by communicating can we have a deeper understanding of each other; only by communicating can we continuously improve our understanding of each other, thereby reducing or avoiding some unnecessary misunderstandings and frictions.
The more we do not communicate, the more we intentionally guard against it, the harder it will be for people to blend. Communication requires initiative and waiting for others to communicate with themselves, so your popularity will never be good. But knowing how to communicate is not equal to knowing how to communicate. A good communicator knows how to adopt different ways of communication according to different objects and situations. Communication is always closely linked with eloquence. Eloquence can pave the way for your communication and help you write a harmonious chapter for your communication.
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